In a la carte situations, where paying simply boosts your profile to be seen by more people, Carmichael thinks of this similarly to advertising-“it’s just another way to create demand,” she says.
But in a situation where, for example, a woman might pay in order to be able to extend the conversation and message a man, Carmichael just suggests that someone be aware of their values. “I have a lot of [female] clients who prefer more traditional courtships, who it might not align with their values to need to pay to have a longer time to message this man.”
Privacy Matters
If you live in a small town or work in a high-visibility field or something that might cause ethical or sticky situations seeing someone you know on an app-or being seen-you may also want to consider apps that will allow you to have a private profile or to block certain people. “How Much Effort Do You Want to Put In?”の続きを読む